Listen to 2 Corinthians 1 : 3 - 5 which suggests one way of looking at our troubles.
All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ.
Are you allowing God to comfort you in your troubles?
having received, are you passing that comfort along to others?
will you begin to think, and act, this way, today?