Have you discovered the blessing of giving - and forgiving? Luke 6:36-38 encourages us to discover the joys and benefits for ourselves.
"You must be compassionate, just as your Father is compassionate. Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full--pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back."
Be a winner today. Ask God to give you a heart that loves to give, and forgive.