Who do you admire? Whose good qualities do you talk about with others? listen to Psalms 34:1-3
I will praise the LORD at all times. I will constantly speak his praises. I will boast only in the LORD; let all who are helpless take heart. Come, let us tell of the LORD's greatness; let us exalt his name together.
Does your conversation reflect this kind of attitude? How can you be more like this?